By Bart Gragg, President, Blue Collar University
At the experienced age of 60, I decided to take up barrel racing. It’s a competitive event where you ride a horse in a clover-leaf pattern around three barrels. Your score is based on the time to run the pattern and you lose points if you touch a barrel, knock one over or fall off of your horse.
To begin to even think about winning doesn’t happen overnight. There were many struggles and there will be many more. One of mine was that I could never keep my balance in the saddle – which, as it happens, is pretty important. I rode six horses, worked with five trainers, used four saddles, over three years, went through two riding stables, and probably a partridge in a pear tree….
In early 2019 I met Kelly, a 26-year-old trainer. She’s been around horses for about 18 years. A couple of years ago Kelly was kicked by a rearing stallion. This broke eleven bones in her face and caused her to lose her sense of smell, but not her love for life or horses.
Kelly always sees the good in my efforts – throughout any lesson, she will tell me, “I love that you did this! Was it perfect? No. But I’ll take it over the alternative!” Or, “This is what it means to the horse when you do this… which is why I want you to be very careful and do that...” Always with the praise and always with the “here’s why or how you might improve.” She never asks me to be excellent on the first run, walk or trot. What she is looking for are the small wins and the bringing together of all of the components.
Then, just when I think I have it all together, she adds another layer.
What keeps me working with Kelly is more than just her attitude. It is also a trend that started with something that happened during my very first lesson with her. Kelly noticed my struggles with balance and the saddle slipping, leaving me at risk of looking like Dudley Do-Right, hanging upside down and having the unique view of the world through the front legs of a galloping horse.
No matter what other trainers had tried, like tightening the cinch, changing saddles, adjusting pads, and so on, the saddle slipped. The saddle horn would also hit me in the stomach. Kelly stopped me and had me stand straight up in the stirrups. “Looking good,” she said. “Now, sit straight down where you are. Good. Notice that you are not touching the front or back of the saddle? Try to keep that position.”
That one simple tweak from her has fixed many, many issues. In fact, several times Kelly has stopped me and tightened the cinch saying, “You know that cinch had an inch of space between it and the horse's belly? That’s a testament to your ability to maintain your balance!”
Each of you that read this will have your own takeaways. The one that I want to focus on is that as a manager or supervisor you are also a coach and a mentor. Kelly’s title is “trainer,” but she has become my coach and mentor. A coach shows or tells people what they want them to do. A mentor asks questions until the student comes to their own realization about what is right. Coaches and mentors carefully observe people so that they can see what is working, what isn’t, and why. Then they work with them to improve.
The best coaches and mentors – the best supervisor and managers – look for the one thing that can improve employee performance, today, right now. Whether it’s pipefitting, lifting, loading pigs into a pipeline, moving heavy iron on a drilling rig, lighting a torch, cutting wood, communicating with others, discussing plans, whatever your people are doing, there is always one thing that can help them improve. Once they have learned and practiced that “one thing,” there will be another “one thing.” And another.
Getting the best out of people isn’t a goal – it’s a result. It’s the result of working together observing, asking, listening, coaching and mentoring.
If you have a manager or employee struggling then look for the one thing that is the root of their problems and work on that. You might be surprised at how other issues fall away and how rapidly they improve.
Bart Gragg's Blue Collar University works with business leaders and managers to better understand how to work more effectively with each other. For more information on how to engage Bart as a speaker or consultant visit https://www.bluecollaru.com/blog/contact/ or call him at (925) 354-0277.